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Ladies, How Well Do You Know What Comes Out Your Kitty? According to Experts, Not Much

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Does having sex more than once a day increase chances of conception?

Will specific sexual positions or elevating the pelvis after intercourse make you more likely to become pregnant?

Does intercourse need to occur before or after ovulation to optimize conception?

These are all questions that women were asked that an overwhelming amount answered incorrectly.  How could women, with the greatest responsibility on the planet, the gatekeepers of life be so uniformed, uneducated about their reproductive health.  According to the article on the site Hello Beautiful, many women don’t know much about child-birth and other things, except of course the basics.

“A new study from the Yale School of Medicine showed that most women of childbearing age know very little about reproductive health, and 50 percent of women have never even raised questions about the subject with a medical professional. Although nearly half of women admitted to having concerns over their fertility, they were unaware of the negative effects of aging, stds and bad health habits, and they were also uneducated on the benefits of good nutrition and multivitamins.”   The article also goes on to say that the reason that women may know so little is because they are not taught at an early age about their reproductive health and that there is also a discrepancy between the sex education curriculum and the new research now available about women’s health.”

How could we not know much about what goes in and comes out our bodies.  We are responsible for birthing the next generation.  Of course so much little importance is put on our jobs as women but look at how important it really is .  Simply put, if it weren’t for our reproductive systems and its health, none of our asses would be here.  We need to continue to learn about what makes our bodies work and function.  We need to understand our biological workings and know the intricacies of its delicateness.  Shame that we women know not that much more than men on what comes out of our bodies.  How many times has a man tried to tell you what can and can’t happen if you let him hit it raw? LOL

Oh gosh, I believe that this is the case of three different problems, the first being lack of education:

In school we are taught to add, subtract, read, but not to know what goes on in our bodies.  We are not taught how our reproductive systems work…and most importantly that you don’t pee pee out of your vagina.  We are taught that using the word penis, insert, vagina, sex makes people uncomfortable. So we are taught other words like coochie, my mom says “cat” and I hate that lmao.  Any time a young girl begins to question her sexual health she is shunned and told to stop being “hot” or she is being “fast.”  So, we are taught not to ask because if it were something important, like politics, religion, latest gossip, we should be free to talk about it right? And that is when the inner freaks begin to shine.  Why? Because we were taught we can’t talk about certain things in public.

The second reason I believe is because of the inefficiencies in the health care system.  This is also where my degrees would come into play…too bad I barely paid attention in class.

The health care providers, who we have to wait for 20 hours to see, to have the express 5 minute pap smear.  There is no time to speak with them to ask our most pressing questions.  But, they are overworked and there is money to be made by the number of patients that are seen.  SO why waste time on educating them about their bodies so they could continue to get better? So it is not entirely women’s faults, however:

We are responsible for the knowledge we obtain.

Many times we don’t begin to question those things until after we have become sexually active.  We just know that are bodies have changed and that we are feeling some type of way, thus we act on it…We act on it, not really knowing.  Not really knowing that contraception, abortion, pregnancy, birth, stds are all interconnected. It deals with our reproductive health.  How important is this function.  How important is it to know about these things?  Let me tell you, fashion, makeup or shoes none of that would be important if there is no one to rock it. Once we get to a certain age it is time to educate ourselves.  We study everything else, science, math, engineering but we fail ourselves when it comes to our most important being which is our being, our body.  If our body is not together, we can’t take care of anyone else.  It is time to learn our inner workings.  Get acquainted with your yourself and love your body.

Stay sexy, healthy, and inspired

References and some info:

New Study Claims Women Don’t Know Nothing About Birthing No Babies!

While 40 percent of women were worried about their ability to conceive, over a quarter of women were unaware that things like smoking, ovulation, sexually transmitted infections (STIs), irregular menstrual cycles or obesity could impact their fertility.

“The most depressing, most concerning part was the level of unawareness amongst young women about their own biology,” study author Lubna Pal, associate professor of obstetrics, gynecology, and reproductive sciences at the Yale University School of Medicine, told  “Lack of awareness about: What does ovulation mean? What are the signs? Does it have any implications for fertility?”

Will specific sexual positions or elevating the pelvis after intercourse make you more likely to become pregnant? Though more than one-third of women surveyed believed these tricks would increase their likelihood of getting pregnant, Pal said it’s simply not true.

“A complete myth, no truth, no data to support that,” Pal said

Most women surveyed admitted they didn’t see a reproductive health care provider regularly – and when they did, they didn’t ask questions that might help them gain a better understanding of their reproductive health.

“This awareness (needs to) come at community level, school, college, women’s health forums, it should be a common language.”


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  • This is a great article! Not long ago, an image was floating around social media, teaching women how to properly clean their vaginas. Though it was ridiculed, I was glad that it circulated and hoped that women paid attention because as you stated, this stuff is rarely (if ever) discussed. Good stuff. Thanks for sharing.

    • It is true though! A lot of young girls are not really taught this kind of stuff…of course we are taught “Wipe front to back,” Lol, but tell us what else is going on down there….and the power we hold…and not p**** power, but power to change the world.

  • fee

    This is true. I’ve had several gynecologist and not one told me I can be vaccinated for hpv. After the reading tons of articles about it I decided to ask my gyno only it was to late. I was making 27 in a week and the cut off was we 26. 1 in 2 women who are sexually active will receive hpv. So chances are high. All that to say if I would’ve been informed I could’ve been vaccinated since the age of 18. I don’t have hpv (Thank God ) but there is high risk that most women aren’t aware of.

    • robinlove08

      Yes! I don’t recall my ob/gyn informing me of vaccinations! Hpv is very common as your stats indicate. It is great to know what is going on with your body and always read up on things. Thanx for your comment hun

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