Sometimes we can be so hard on ourselves. If we push and try for something and it doesn’t work out, we beat ourselves up. Sometimes things just doesn’t turn out as planned, it doesn’t make us feel good. One can be in so much pain over things that are totally out of our control. And it is understandable. We have in our minds the way we want things to work out and if it doesn’t, the big D…no not that D lol, I mean Disappointment, comes along. We are disappointed because we had high hopes for a certain occurrence. And life has shown us time and time again that things don’t always work out the way we planned. So why are we still so attached to things, especially with the knowing that the only thing we can control are the things that are within our control. Everything else is just life happening to us. And we control how we react to it. I believe in planning, but I am learning to not get attached to the outcome so much. Be fluid in your expectations of the results. Or there can be a mistake that you made that you are just dwelling on. We all make mistakes and have things we wish we could have said or didn’t say. Guess what? Those faux pas made you. Even if it was a tough lesson, it has helped you to do better next time. What is done is done. What is said is said. No backsies. But you can learn because life is all about lessons. Learning them, conquering them and moving on. To be good to yourself, take it step by step. You literally have to go second by second, minute by minute but as long as you keep moving forward. I believe that life really wants to be good to us. We just have to first be good to ourselves and trust, know and have faith that it will all work together.