Dear Self: It Is Time To Let Her Go

Dear Self: It Is Time To Let Her Go

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So many times we hear of how we have to let people go in our lives that no longer serve us any purpose, blah blah. We are constantly being told to let go of things outside of us that are absolutely destroying us on the inside (gets very dramatic).  Things such as relationships, baggage, excess weight etc. But what about the time when the things we must let go of is ourselves? You know our old way of doing things and wanting different results kind of idea. I think in the bible it is described as putting new wine into old wines skins…im too lazy to look it up, but you get my drift. You can’t go into a new level of anything taking old ideas, thoughts and mindsets with you. Especially if that ish has not benefitted you in the past in any way shape or form. So many times we are comfortable. We say that we want change, but change is very uncomfortable so we retreat back to our old ways of doing and thinking. It takes strength to change. We don’t want to let go of the things we have learned with her. She is our ride or die. She is us. But sometimes you have to leave things behind. Even if it is those things within you that no longer serve you. Let her go. Let go of her old beliefs and self-destructive thoughts. She still thinks that You are inadequate, not pretty and incapable of doing things. She still has issues of abandonment, feelings of rejection and a can’t do attitude. You see how silly this is? Those beliefs may have served you and kept you in a state of fear of what could go wrong. They never were and never will be good for you.  Let her go and be on the lookout for her new replacement. A better you.

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My name is Robinette and I love cupcakes, cakes, and donuts! I am a follower of Christ, mother, daughter, sister, and friend. I believe my life’s purpose is to empower women by inspiring them to rise to optimal living, hence the blog. I believe that I am already a success because I am following my dreams and on track to my life’s purpose and what to see other women do the same. I will share my life’s lessons and the wisdom I have gained from it using my signature humor…Ok I’m not that funny.

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